seperated-having doubts
I asked my AH to leave about 10 days sago...not so much for his drinking because he has slowed WAY down...but because he is so angry and is very verbally abusive. We have been seperated a few times....the longest of which for 2 weeks. It seems that after about a week....we seem to get a long again - at least for brief amounts of time, and I start to "miss" him. However that never lasts long, nor do the changes in his attitude. So, why is it it has been 10 days and I'm starting to feel that - come back - attitude. I guess I feel guilty mostly - and always hope he has learned his lesson. I'm trying to stick to my - not until our 1st counseling visit....but it is so hard...especially w/ the holidays. Not to mention, I am about 20 weeks pregnant, making it even more complicated. Anyone have any advice....experience w/ similar situation and/or how you felt after being seperated for that long??