((Teke))...I have no advice, just wanted to thank you for posting this today, as I am feeling the same way about xabf being in jail, especially over the holidays. He is not allowed to contact me, so I do not have to deal with the letters, but he did try and contact me here at work the other day, but calling collect (he knows I can't take the calls). I feel bad for him, so bad. Good for you for knowing you are done with him. Try and remember the bad things he did, maybe that will help you to feel not as bad, it helps me sometimes.