So great to hear from you!!
missed ya!!
I can relate to having that hard time saying no - I think what helps me is that me saying no allows them the opportunity to find another way.
Maybe, hopefully but God's unfailing Grace - that other way could be the way to recovery some day - I know that it doesn't always happen that way - I said NO to my dauther and on the 2nd of this month she celebrated 7 months sober. I said NO to my NOW ex husband and he is spiraling out of control.
Sometimes NO is a very loving thing Rozie - not only for you but for them too!!
I love Ann's suggestion of "I have no money" that's kinda hard to argue with!
Wishing you and yours God's very BEST!!
HUGS,
Rita