Hi,
You and BF got into a relationship pretty quickly, right? Maybe you step back and reflect for a while. I don't know, but it sounds like you like the guy however are not that into him. If that is true, then you might want to evaluate how you feel about him and what role you want him to have in your life. From your posts he has been pretty supportive of you, so you migt want to talk with him honestly about your hang ups.
I don't like the sex pressure thing either. It is disrespectful to you.
Not all relationships last forever. Maybe this one has run its course? Only you know what it is that you want.