I'm with you all on this. The bond I share with alchoholics/hard drinkers/etc. is that I beleive I react differently to alchohol and therefore cant drink well.
Outside of that what I have are human traits and I have more in common with all humanity than is different...then again I'm an individual....crp... lol ... I get confused...
being contentedly sober is alot about living with the paradox's for me