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Old 12-03-2009, 08:36 PM
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teke
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oh hurt, i know its hard and right now, i'm hurting with you. sorry but i think with you covering for him its only giving a signal that you are not done and that he's safe to continue his drug use. have you set any boundaries that you can follow through on? i konw you love your son but they always told me that you can love an addict to his grave.

most addict i've ever knowm that got sober, hit rock bottom before they decided to get better. my mil can't see herself allowing her son(ah) suffer for his actions, she thinks she is helping him in the name of god, but i think he may not even try to find his own way and god may not lead him until he can get his attention. i think god may just wait until my mil decides to get out of his way. jmo my ah is 50yro and still using and mil is still providing his basic needs even when he had a job. when she didn't have a place for him to run to, he ran to rehab and as soon as she found a home for herself, he moved in with her and went back to using.
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