Originally Posted by
ananda 
however if you decide you are not an alchoholic, you are still a friend of many alchoholics and alanon practices the same spiritual principles.
I'm not sure if this is what you meant but this helped a lot. I didn't even think that if I decide i'm not an alcoholic that I can still do alanon. That is a relief. I know I need a spiritual solution, I'm just worried about fitting into the right group.