I definitely its not a reason to use, I don't agree or excuse it at all. I'm taking care of me, I'm in nursing school so I'm just concentrating on class and clinical days. I also went on a major cleaning spree of our apartment tonight, so that helped get my mind off things.
I just don't know if I should just leave him alone or if it would help at all for him to know that I still care by sending a text or a message online.