Originally Posted by
Japic05 
((rhonda))
Tough love is harder on us I believe - but I do believe that it does help allow that other person the ability to find their inner dignity to sometimes make the choice to look for a brighter pathway.
HUGS,
Rita
I certainly agree. Last week I went NO contact with my AD, thought today would be really hard to get thru (last yr she was in rehab for T-G, 2 yrs b/4 in Jail) It was only my dh & I, but we made the most of the day, nice BIG T-G dinner, then relaxed. (hmmmm too much food lol) My AD did text me today with I love u & Happy T-G) I thanked HP because with that text I knew she was alive. My HP knew I needed to know that today.
A friend of hers texted me wanting advice, I texted him back saying that stepping back and going NO contact was
hard, however very
necessary for ME.
Hugs,
Chris