Well yeah slow to join but here I am quit date 11/15/09. Single mommy with a 3yr old. Ex-husband in prison for something bad he did while - guess what? Drunk and on drugs. Thankfully I left him a long time ago, but it's sad my daughter will never know him he has a 22 year sentence and I refuse to let alcohol take me away from her as well. Hope this isn't too much info-I really am an optmistic person!