hi mentally exhausted-
why on earth would you take an alcoholic to a bar?
why would you come back and pick him up after working all day and also making dinner?
why would you be surprised he is unreasonable about his plate of food after he's been drinking for 2.5 hours?
i do understand that you had had a tiring day and wanted to unwind at your local with your husband. that's normal. but a relationship with an alcoholic is not normal and by the sound of it, you set yourself in this particular case.