I have many friends and family that I can call night or day and I'm a believer in Rational Recovery. It's something that makes sense to me and works for me. I read constantly and have done an enormous amount of research on addiction. I'm far from an expert, but after years of trying and trying and not succeding I've found out what I knew all along....I made my own choices and I could either choose to continue doing what I was doing or I could stop my foolishness. Everyone has to find what works for them...thats all I was trying to say.