Thank you all so much - you have eased some of my fears about AA. I think a women's only meeting would be good for me, in addition to a therapist. Anyway I suppose you can't know if you don't try it, right?
Originally Posted by
joedris 
And you need to also understand that this disease is serious, real, and permanent. Telling or not telling your husband you want to attend AA will never change that.
Thank you for that reality check - that it's there in all its danger no matter who I tell or what I tell them.
My brain told me at lunch today that I could "just have one drink tonight"....I told it no.
What a place of unease this is right now.
My good friend told me today - "That's something I've learned about life...the scarier the changes the better they are for you!"