Desert Eyes- I never thought of letting someone help you, helps the other person. Hmm, that's a new perspective for me.
I actually am not very interested in him, and that was part of the reason that I felt bad. I felt like his "payment" was spending time with me to possibly date me. I knew that wasn't going to happen, so that's why I kept trying to pay. I don't know, to me, the idea that someone would help me just because they want to, with nothing in return, is so foreign.