jin, im also new here, and welcome.
i know about your first post, when i first found this website a few days ago, i was all exited to find a support network, i spent like 3 hours writing my first post. then it wouldnt post, every time i hit the button the screen went blank. i literally cried.
but i finally got through and all is well. i have been here several times a day, this website is fantastic, everyone here is so great.
i dont have any advice on your question other than stay here, you will def have friends in no time flat.