Hey 4ever. My advice would be to focus on you. I'm thinking that with your quitting that may be raising some concerns for your husband and him justifying your drinking in turn is his way of making his drinking ok. Being in a relationship where one is drinking and the other isn't usually is cause for some conflict in any case. One person is making a major lifestyle change.
So glad you found SR, this place is great. Keep reading and posting. Welcome!!
