Jim...this has been quite an interesting thread. I admire your courage to post your feelings and to be honest am shocked by some of the replies. I think honesty is paramount when speaking with your gf and I am sure you will be able to resolve this issue in short order. In addition I expect that those who called you names will be making amends to you quite soon less they want to be viewed as hypocrites. Oh yeah...one more thing...I only take relationship advise from people who have successfully maintained one apart from their computer. Best of luck!