Originally Posted by
firemama 
...It was suppose to be easy, I have read so many threads and everyone must be stronger than I am because I don’t think I can do this.
I have not seen many threads that said "it was supposed to be easy" I have read hundreds of threads that described it as "the hardest thing I ever did".
In my case: I had to loose my job, my wife, my health, my savings, and end up on the streets homeless. I would not describe it as "easy" but it was exactly what I needed, to learn the meaning of "surrender".
It had nothing to do with being "stronger". It had everything to do with being defeated.