I replaced his stuff, heck I watered down his stuff
I have done this too, in the end of my worst and last drinking phase, with a bottle of hard liquor that belonged to a flatmate. On more than one occasion. I still shudder when I think of it.
I now have no problem if there is alcohol around the house, I just know that I am done with it. I have done this for myself and I had to adress some very painful underlying problems when I got sober, and that actually helped me in my recovery and made me more serene in my sobriety. I don't feel tempted by the bottles, but if it was the case, I would kindly request them to be kept away from the shared space. If you feel uncomfortable with the vodka in the car, tell your husband about it and ask him to put it away. After all, you are not ordering him to completely refrain from consuming alcohol, just to support your sobriety.
Greetings, and have a good sober day,
S.