Originally Posted by
allport 
Good I am glad you are getting on with it and doing stuff you enjoy.
But to turn around and say our relationship should be ok if she stops drinking is horrible.
Don't get me wrong I have no idea of the dynamics of your relationship but don't come the old "how dare she get mashed" stuff.
From what you have said in the past it is you who had the problem, if she has a problem maybe you could try and talk to her about it, instead of whinging online and expecting a pat on the back.
a pat on the back from any one but myself means nothing to me
i have worked very hard to stop drinking ,my life was in danger i have a mentally ill daughter to look after and if anything happens to me who will look after her ???i must stay healthy end of
i have other children too and my main concern is being a good dad to them not being the perfect understanding other half of someone who wants to get smashed
i really dont need the hassle of being in that situ
as any ex drunk will tell you to kiss a partner that tastes and reeks of jack daniels aint too great
if you cant understand my position i really dont care
its my kids and my health that matter here not getting understanding from members that i dont know
i'm walking my walk and talking my talk, i hope you can do the same
