Even though it is a difficult situation, there is something to be learned in it.
i hope you will be able to see a clear course of action with this one soon.
Many times in my life i suffered from the shortcomings of others becuase i compared my past actions to their present behavior. It took me a long time to see that i was rationalizing their problems and minimizing my feelings about what they were doing. i was actually limiting my own ability to find a practical solution to the situation! Steps 1, 2, & 3 helped me to stop playing the victim to the disease & to stop volunteering for the pain and confusion that it caused.