Dev, I have to say that the social worker is doing a darn poor job. Bad communications to start with, and then having her live with him? Sounds unethical to me.
Regardless of all that, at least the babies are safe for now. I too don't think this story is over, but I hate to see you jerked around like this.
I'll be back tomorrow to read this all again. Your life really is a book.
Hugs