Originally Posted by lostinabq
We don't live together and I don't drink around him most of the time...he doesn't want me drinking even if we are not together. Does that make sense?
Sure it does. He either believes or is afraid you are an alcoholic and he doesn't want that to be the case because of a certain sense of self-preservation, so he wants you to stop drinking. Is he projecting? Maybe so. Does it matter? No. If he can't stand it and you can't stand not to... then... there you go.