I have the same problem as Ashleek but I got there by a different path.
I was raised Catholic with the idea of a loving god. The nuns at school said that everyone is going to heaven---hell was meant for devils not people and Jesus saved EVERYONE (including "bad" people and those who do not believe in him).
But even with such a loving and inclusive god, I still have problems believing that a good god could have made this world.
Maybe it is not the people who raised us who turned us on or off to religion. Maybe it is something inside us.