Seem to remember doing that a few times myself.
Codie vs love and kindness towards another.
Sitting up till the wee hours talking with someone so they wouldn't cut.
Trying to fix or was I just being a friend who could see the problem clearly?
I would think as the steps are played out, wisdom increases and I will better know what I can change, what I can't, when to help, and then when to just be a friend who is needed at the moment. For a few times that I was able to help others with depression... it wasn't what I said but how I said it that made a difference. Seems like such a fine line at times doesn't it?