Hi again Valleyd
I commend you for your charity to your roommate - it's a tough situation for anyone regardless of recovery or not.
But expecting you to deal with everything is obviously weighing heavily on you...I understand this is a vent, but if it should prove too much for you, I think it would be in both your best interests to let her know this.
I wish you luck on the job front too - and congrats on your 9 months
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