faithfully:
in your first sentence you say that you think there were people on this forum before who did not like you?
I'm curious - is it because you got on here time and again with the drama, was not willing to do anything about it (paralleling your addict), and people started catching on and calling you on it?
Mind you, i do not remember you. I'm just taking an educated guess here. If this is the case, you're not the only one. I've seen other posters come on here, tell their story, get all kinds of advice, then go away for a long time only to get on again with the same drama only this time there are lots of new posters who take precious time out of their day giving advice not realizing the original poster has heard this all before.
You say you've been on here before, so you've heard everything that there is to offer here.