I am a professional in a very small, narrow minded community. I cannot go to AA for that very reason. In my profession, if someone found out I was alcoholic, I would probably be fired, if they could find a way to do it.
With that being said, I am not anti-AA. If I am ever in a different community and am in the situation that I could attend a meeting, I would certainly do it. If I ever feel my sobriety is in imminent danger, I will drive to find a meeting.
People can be closed minded....no matter what organization they belong to! If you like meetings....keep going until you find the one that fits you.
I wish you well.