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Old 10-08-2009, 11:14 PM
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They have this thing called one day at a time....

I wanted a bulldozer too...but in the end I had the equivalent of a toothbrush...and I'm glad I did...

we're rebuilding ourselves FS...from the ground up - the way we want to be...
To do the job right - that takes time.

It's the most important thing you'll ever do - it sets up the rest of your life...why hurry the job and cut corners?

I learnt so much in the actual process of healing and rebuilding by taking it slowly, peeling back the onion skin...building on my bank of knowledge about myself and my life and my feelings day by day...

I know - we're used to the quick fix - immediate gratification. It's no accident that this recovery thing takes time IMO. It's a valuable lesson.

Take it slow - one day at time really does work here too.
Don't bite off too much.

Have the faith that, as long as you stay committed and trust in the outcome, you're exactly where you need to be, FS

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