Always had the guy(s) for years. In 2005 fell deeply in lust and got married for the first (only thus far) time.
Since then..... flying solo. Did the slip 'n' slide with some "friends" but found that didn't work for me too well. Now.... concentrating on the woman I am and look forward to the either "just me" or "us" scenario.... which I can't predict.
Whenever I think that things will go in a certain direction long-term wise.... I'm always surprised.