[QUOTE=bluebelle;2388150]He is trying to convince you that you are responsible for his actions.
Yes I feel this a lot and I really try to be calm and explain that I have tried to help get him to doctors etc. Thanks for sharing your experience with your mother, it does help. I am responsible mostly for enabling him, giving him money. It's going to be difficult but I am going to say NO to that request, which will be coming today or tomorrow. I am prepared to leave, even temporarily, to fulfill that.