Thank you all, Today he has started to sober up and has seen what damage he has caused. At first you know I got the " You should not have left me in that shape" I said You should not have gotten in that shape. Now he is trying to talk me into going home and him living in the motor home in of all places "THE BACK YARD" I said no faster than my mind thought. I have stuck to my guns and decided I will not go back unless he is 100% clean and sober and working the program. It is hard to see him this lonley but then I think I have been lonley for so long.
My kids are at peace right now even though it is a little tight living here, they do not have to worry about him drinking.
Thank you all again for your support