LOL I had to laugh, if I had a load on I was happy as a clam around other folks. In the last few years of my drinking I started getting pretty irratable about noon or 12:30PM every day before I got off work at 1 when I could pop that first top in my truck for the ride home and 6-7 more along the way. If I had to work late I became a real SOB!!!!
For me it was the lack of booze that made me moody!!!
When I first got out of detox I had a very short fuse, but the further I got away from that last drink and the more I worked my program the more even tempered I became. Folks at work commented at how mellow I had become, especially at the end of the day, if I have to work late it is no big deal any longer.
For me it was the booze.... maybe the lack there of that made me moody, I have changed a lot due to not drinking and applying the steps daily to my life.
My husband has a drinking problem, something we are dealing with.
Hon this is a probelm only he can deal with, as Anna suggested, you need to recover your self, I would suggest Alanon & the friends and family forum here.