((katie))
hate so much you are going thru this with your AS -
it is very painful to have your loved ones steal, lie and manipulate you - I know it is part of the disease but that doesn't take away the pain we feel.
I do not know what is right or wrong for you to do in this situation - I would only suggest that you seek your God's direction as to what is best for YOU. Not your AS, not the church, not the pastor - but for YOU. What can be the healthiest decision for YOU. You do have the right to take care of YOU in this matter.
Praying for comfort, strength and wisdom for you as you walk the path of your own recovery in learning to take care of YOU!
HUGS,
Rita