Trish-I'm sorry if my post came across at all like I thought you were lying-or were going to.That wasn't at all what I meant.I was responding to you throwing the ideas out-the 'what if's' and responded to those....that's all.
As I said and I'll say it again-one of the things I truly love about you is how honest you are.You have always been that way since I've been here and I think it's a gutsy, admirable quality in you.You have tons of reasons you 'could've' lied, to not take a beating sometimes here for example....but you haven't done it.
I tend to take things fairly literally here, given all we have is the words we post.But if I got it wrong then I truly apologise.I think your questions are good and I'm glad you posted them.
I am a huge supporter of you, even if I don't post all that often.
Jules xox