Dothi:
That's the weird thing. She's very calm at this point. She cried when we talked, but it was nothing like the sobbing on the floor I did. She has not told him she is leaving yet, but is seeing a divorce attorney later this week.
I don't think she will change her mind or second guess herself either. She seems much more sure of her decision than I was the first time I left. I hope it stays that way. If she decides to stay, I'll support her, but I hope not. I really want her to have a happy life and with an active A, I know she won't.