I have been taking very good care of my own life, which she knows because she has been there every step of the way, but as you are likely aware, if you've left your AH or partner or stopped contact with an alcoholic or addict in your life, it's not easy. She has no family here and, although they are willing to help her also in any way they can, I think all of us have valid concerns about her getting out of the situation with him with her mental and physical health intact, which is why I'm trying to figure out the best way to support her being that my once worn shoes are on her feet because I am done with my xabf and have been for a long time.