Hi,
I'm glad things are going much better in your life and congratulations on your 80 days sober.
This is just a suggestion, but there are lots of ways to be social and to meet women, other than in pubs/bars. How about sports? Do you play softball or tennis? Or how about a volunteer activity? Since your job is stressful, maybe you would enjoy doing something in your community to help out, and also to meet people.