Thanks for your responses...
yes... maybe I am obsessing a little... and definetely taking on his worries/ responsibilities... but just for today... tomorrow I'll be moving on again.
I think it helps me to get my worries out here on the forum. If I get it out and have it talked about, I'm able to move on and leave it behind me. Otherwise I'd be carrying it around with me for who knows how long and would keep worrying about it (this is what I've learned lately... my feelings/ worries won't go away by ignoring them - they only get worse).
I really do appreciate your honesty and the fact that you call me out on things like this.
Laurie - thanks for reminding me that it's the desire that counts!!!