My other issue with codependency is learning to live my new truthful reality, my newly realigned life as a survivor of childhood and adult abuse who chooses to live her life independent of her alcoholic family of origin.
I know this is so very difficult. I also choose to not participate in, agree with, condone, or otherwise support the choices of other people to indulge in an addictive lifestyle. It is difficult because that makes me the "odd man out" but I am willing to accept that in order to maintain my sanity. So, I am with you.