Sure he didnt have his head on when looking for oral sex from the call girls. Sorry, that behaviour started later on...
No kidding. Funny how we defend the most reprehensible of behavior when it comes to the addicts in our lives. That is our is our sickness. That is our part of their disease. To overcome this we can set and enforce boundaries that are healthy for us about the behavior that we are willing to accept in our lives.
That is when people stop lying to us. Stop cheating on us. Stop treating us like doormats. They may not change. But we do.