Hey GUYS--- Thanks for the replys!!!
I have battled with this for quite some time. SInce I wrote this thread she has asked that we talk and I told her everything again. She has had her issues and she could not have given to me at the time. I understand that, but that time has passed and now she thinks by saying this that it will be all better. I don't know how to get rid of the resentment and feelings of inadequacy. She was sad that our relationship was failing but she never let it bother her life in general. She can be somewhat controlling or strong and I perceive this as being unequal. She is surprised that I would think of that as inequality. :banghead: I feel like I keep hitting a brick wall!
It is hard to give it up and it is so hard to start over again after throwing in the towel.
Thanks for everyones kind words...
Sharon