KJ - I really don't want to come off as an arse but it seems like you make a big deal out of everything - have you ever asked yourself "why" ?
How hard is it, you sign what you feel comfortable signing and you don't do the rest. If you cant figure it out, you ask members with more experience in PI or meetings in general, but it isn't brain science unless you make it that way.
Court cards have been here long before you got here and will be long after - just use some acceptance and move on.