His Mom is a huge problem in our marriage and always has been. I could go on and on and on about the things that she has done long before her son ever had a drug addiction.
Anyway, you are right-nothing changes if nothing changes. I want to file for divorce but his therapist BEGGED me not to, she told me it wouldn't be good for him because she thought he wouldn't go to rehab if I filed.
I know I need to move on with my life and I guess I am in denial about how codependent I still am.