That didn't come across as flippant it came across as mean
sorry.
It's kind of a reaction to something I heard earlier, and I should know better than to put my own crap on here.
I do however think you really need to look at how you are dealing with the ex.
I am not one of those people who thinks you should not have any dealings with those who were around when we were using.
But unacceptable behaviour is not something you should accept from anyone just to keep them in your life.
If you feel you need him in your life that is your choice but are you willing to put up with the baggage?