Originally Posted by
leelee5675 
I cannot believe the friend is telling you that your AH can't work his program without you. Has he worked it while you were with him? Please don't get sucked into that...it is against everything we are striving for to overcome our co-dependency
I hear it from everyone - except my sister - that he can't make it without me and he needs me and I can't desert him...his family REALLY doesn't want me to go because then he will be back on their doorstep.
No, he has never worked his program. He has made me think he was and I chose to live in ignorance and not get the facts about what I would be SEEING if he was working his program. He knew how to snow me just long enough to get me to do what he wanted me to do...
Thank you for reminding me that it is what we all striving to overcome. I have felt so alone for so long...there really is a whole "we" out there.