mentally exhausted-
a pitcher and a few shots would be a drunk for me, you? i think that's a lot of drink and that's only what you saw. i find with A's, the minute you turn your back or go to the bathroom, it's a couple more doubles down the throat.
so, you said no drink or you'll separate? and then he drinks and you're still there?
i don't think it's too much to ask him not to drink if he wants to be in a relationship with you.
if you continue to set boundaries and then permit them to be crossed, what message are you sending to your A?
why don't you just leave for a while and send him the message that you mean what you say?
enough is enough. your freedom and peace of mind are yours for the taking.
naive