I just wanted to say thank you for all the posts. It's so helpful to get your feedback and know that some of you have experienced similar situations. I go back and forth between understanding that this is the behavior of an addict vs him just not being into the relationship after sobriety. When he left said that I was great in the relationship and that I "fixed him" from his addiction and it had nothing to do with anything I had done, but that we wouldn't be happy as we deserved long term, and that 'sometimes love isn't enough'. Like many of you said, I'll never know...the only thing I can do is move on and keep my eyes wide open for red flags of any new people entering my life. Thank you again - Ringlet