Old 07-12-2009, 01:24 PM
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laurie6781
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His counselor AGREED telling him to keep giving the program a chance and that they will revisit the issue at the end of next week. Can this be true??
What the counselor ACTUALLY said and what HE HEARD may be two entirely different things.

Stick with your plan. If he pushes, simple answer is NO. If you feel you need to back that up with something more, "sorry my folks are here from such and such date to such and such date" (and you can 'lengthen' the actual time if it will make you feel better).
Therefore, if he should decide to leave he will have to figure out where he is going to go, NOT YOUR PROBLEM.

I would suspect the counselor AGREED to talk about it in another week, lol

Stay in today. I am glad you are going to a meeting tonight. Just remember, he is still in MANIPULATION mode and will be for quite a time to come.

Please keep posting and let us know how YOU are doing as we do care very much.

Love and hugs,
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