I think relapse comes with the whole sobriety goal.
Just my opinion. Although I do believe that it is rare for anyone to get it the first time. When someone says that relapse is a part of recovery. That says to me that it is ok to relapse because thats what has to happen in order to get recovery. Relapse isnt a part of recovery. And just saying that. Which I have heard alot just sounds like the perfect excuse to use one more time. Just my opinion.